Broken Smile

its good to stay positive

but putting up a smile when you are really not okay,

can be very unhealthy 

or is it its human nature, to hide uncomfortable things away.. =/

a friend used to tell me
if u deny a feeling, it actually takes you longer to get over it.
in the end, people who manage to move on are people who embrace it

for the other group that can act as if nothing happened
these people may look tough on the outside
but they are the one is easily hurt/have been hurt before
fearing the unknown and wanting to always be in control of their emotion

they can put on a mask all they want,
but in the inside.. they are not going anywhere...
becuase they've refused to accept it in the first place =(

so, next time if u spot a friend putting up a tough mask..
tell him its okay to feel vulnerable very now and then,
becuase each and everyone of us is no superman,
in fact, even superman have his kryptonite
if you fell, i'm there to catch you =)
so stop being such a tough-ass! XP


"but be careful though..
they don't like people to know, that's why they hide it in the first place
so..they might be defensive about it.
you need to let them know that you are sincere in hearing them out"

i used to wonder what broken smile actually is

now i know.

gotta learn to let it out, got it?

alright,  what am i talking about in this joyous season =.=

Happy Chinese New Year chingus

working on a supprise right now..=)

stay tuned!

good night.